I want to write this because there are people who think that all adoptees have the same opinions, both non-adoptees and adoptees.
Some people must accept that people are different, people have different opinions, different experiences and different point of views. Earlier I have been written about a guy who questioned me in a rude way about the fact that I wanted to find my family. And a few days ago I saw a post in the Facebook group about a girl who was tired of people who added her as a friend and then they were rude about why she didn’t want to travel back to her country or find her family.
Okay there might be some people that might have weird point of views but you shouldn’t try to change their opinions because only they know how they feel. Adoption is emotional as it is!!! Accept the persons opinion and move on.
And yes for non- adoptees, don’t ask people “why don’t you want to find your family” or other questions because the subject is very emotional so don’t even think about interviewing the person about who you love the most or other stupid questions.